Keith Goes Home

Keith Goes Home

Dear Friends,

I’m writing to inform you that Keith went to be with Jesus yesterday, Sunday January 22nd 2012, at 3:00 pm.  Keith’s last few weeks here on earth were peaceful.  He was visited by many friends and relatives whom he was always pleased to see.  Andrea was holding Keith, her beloved husband of 33 years, when he drew his last breath.  Keith loved you all so much and I know that he would want you to know.

Thank you for your fellowship, comments, love and prayers through this last part of Keith’s adventure here with us.

We hope to continue to post Keith’s insights and wisdom here in the future so please check back.  While we grieve the loss of a great man we can rejoice in his everlasting life with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Psalm 23 (The Message)

1-3 God, my shepherd! I don’t need a thing.
You have bedded me down in lush meadows,
you find me quiet pools to drink from.
True to your word,
you let me catch my breath
and send me in the right direction.

4 Even when the way goes through
Death Valley,
I’m not afraid
when you walk at my side.
Your trusty shepherd’s crook
makes me feel secure.

5 You serve me a six-course dinner
right in front of my enemies.
You revive my drooping head;
my cup brims with blessing.

6 Your beauty and love chase after me
every day of my life.
I’m back home in the house of God
for the rest of my life.

Lord, thank you for Keith and the beautiful life he led.  His transparency and authenticity were a breath of fresh air to so many of us and we are so grateful that we were able to walk through some of this adventure with him.  Please cover Keith’s wife, Andrea, and his entire family with your mighty comfort and peace.  We ask all this in Jesus’ name, Amen.

Blessings to you all,

Jessica Lyon

Friend and Assistant

John Keith Miller—Obituary

John Keith Miller, 84, a native of Tulsa, Oklahoma and a resident of Austin, Texas passed away on Sunday, January 22, 2012.  He was born on April 19, 1927 in Tulsa, the son of Earle T. Miller and Mable Davis Miller.  After graduating from Tulsa Central High School, he served in the U.S. Navy and then entered Oklahoma University, Norman, OK.  In 1949, he married Mary Allen Hess. At O.U. he was a member of Beta Theta Pi Fraternity and played on the O.U. Men’s basketball team. He received a B.S. in Business from O.U. in 1951.  For the next decade, Miller worked in the oil exploration business in Texas and Oklahoma.  He left the oil business to study theology at Berkeley Divinity School (at Yale) and Earlham School of Religion, Richmond, IN, receiving a Divinity Degree in 1964.  In 1971 he earned a Master’s Degree in Psychological Counseling.

 

In 1962, Miller became the first director of Laity Lodge, an Ecumenical Christian retreat center in the Texas hill country. Howard E. Butt, Jr. president of the H. E. Butt Foundation and Foundations for Laity Renewal, the founder of Laity Lodge, said that Miller was known for introducing a new kind of honesty in which clergy and others were encouraged to share not only their spiritual victories, by also their spiritual struggles. “His work marked a decisive change in this element of religious culture, cutting across a broad swath of church life.” Butt concluded.

 

In 1965, his first book, The Taste of New Wine, which sold over one million copies, was published.  He spent the rest of his life communicating hope and faith with people through his writing and speaking.  All together Keith has written or co-authored 24 books on subjects including Christian living, addictions and codependence, the process of spiritual transformation, discovering and achieving one’s vocational and life dreams, devotions, and business.  Other works include three DVD series, “A Hunger for Healing,” “Wrestling with Angels,” and “Write from the Heart.”  His deep friendship and partnership with Bruce and Hazel Larson and many others influenced the way the Christian world understood and lived out theology. They helped establish “relational theology,” living out one’s Christian faith as an Adventure through a relationship with God that affects how one lives and relates to God and others.  His commitment to the Adventure and the Story gave many others a way to know Jesus and live a life of faith.

 

In 1976 Keith and his wife were divorced.  Several years later he married Andrea Wells who became not only his partner in life, but his partner also in ministry, writing and the Adventure. Keith continued to speak, write, and invest in the lives of those around him until the day he died. He was a passionate person who loved intensely and who wanted to reflect the light of Christ to the world.  In 2009 he received the degree of Doctor of Humane Letters from the Episcopal Seminary of the Southwest, a reflection of the mark he had made on the church. In November of 2011 he was awarded the Peacemaker’s Award for International Dialogue by the Dispute Resolution Center of Austin for his work in conflict situations in several foreign countries during the past twenty years.

 

He is predeceased by his parents and his brother, Earle P. Miller.

 

He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Andrea Wells Miller of Oak Ridge, TN now living in Austin, and his three daughters, Leslie Williams and her husband, Stockton of Kerrville, TX, Kristin Huffman and her husband Mike of Houston, TX, and Mary-Keith Dickinson and her husband Karl of Hunt, TX.  Leslie’s children include Jerre Williams and wife, Jessica, and Caroline Williams.  Kristin’s children include Lizz Provence Swanson and her husband, Chris, Mark Provence and Becky Provence.  Mary-Keith’s children include Mitchell Dickinson and Mary-Blair Dickinson.  Keith also had five great-grandchildren.

 

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be sent to one of the following: Austin Recovery, 8402 Cross Park Dr., Austin, 78754, St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, 8314 Mesa Dr., Austin, Texas 78759, The Kroc Center, 201 Holdsworth Drive, Kerrville, TX 78028, or Presbyterian Frontier Fellowship/Light of Hope, 7132 Portland Ave. Suite 136, Richfield, MN 55423.

 

A memorial service will be held Saturday, February 4, at 10:00 a.m. at St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, 8314 Mesa (Steck & Mesa) Austin with a reception following the service.

The Worst of Times and the Best of Times

The Worst of Times and the Best of Times

New Years Day

My pitiful little self-centered mind is about half taken up with what my uncle called “the big C” (or malignant cancer) which is (though I have only seen evidence of it) pretty well eating away on my vital organs as you read this.

When I say it is the “best of times,” I’m referring to the fact that I’m clearer in my mind about the way I want to live and relate to those I know and love and whom God has put in my life.

This is the first time I could not negotiate any way out of my problem (cancer-ridden state).  But I can still surrender each day—and sometimes each hour—to God and to loving His people—meaning the rest of you.

Although I have lived a larger-than-life life I am excited about the future.  And I’m beginning to learn to share with people about the possibilities in their lives to use the creative potential in them.

Some days I am very sad about the terminal aspects of my illness, but I’m also very thankful for the eighty-four years of amazing life I’ve already been fortunate enough to live.  Getting here on New Year’s Eve of 2011, I’m grateful for God’s resounding message about loving us (and the fact that so many of his people are living lives of self-limiting love) and for the fact that some days I am beginning to see that I can give and receive love from the God Jesus called Father and from his people who wander into our house to speak of love and gratitude to God.

Right now I’m peaceful.  And I have a heart full of love for God, for those of you who are reading this as I wish you a glorious and peaceful new year in 2012.

Love from Andrea and me,

Keith

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – (Phil. 4:7) The Message

If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. – Mother Teresa

Christmas Eve

Christmas Eve

Keith has written several blogs recently.  Due to a week of confusion they are just now ready to post.  We apologize for the time lag.

December 24, 2011

This morning our friend Trice took me to a meeting of a group of men.  These men have had such an enormous positive influence on my life the last few years that I continue to get up on Saturday mornings and pay whatever price it takes to go and learn more about God.  And I am also learning to become a more authentic man in a world that seems to have cut itself off from the moral and spiritual roots to the extent that, in 1961, my mentor told me the world was turning into a cut-flower society.

This meeting is unique in my experience in that all we do is listen to those who want to share their experience, strength, and hope with each other without contradiction, giving advice, or trying to “straighten each other out”.

Since I have often been reticent to show my real feelings with men, this place has been a real spiritual oasis in the midst of a desert of conventional thinking.

This morning I shared with this group the reality that I had had to stop three times in getting ready to go to the meeting because I had pooped in my pants and had to clean up three times before I could come.  But after telling these men about this experience of shame as a very proud man, I felt spiritually cleansed somehow.  And I thanked these men I’ve come to love so much for all their help and support in dealing with the progress of the aggressive terminal cancer with which I have been diagnosed.

At the end of the meeting, a dear friend handed me this page which I am including in the blog.  It is a reading from the book, Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.

The principal reason why prayers are not answered is because in our hearts we limit the power of God.  The Bible constantly tells us that the people got into trouble because they limited the Holy One.  When you say, “There is no way out of my difficulty,” what can it possibly mean except that you cannot see a way out?  When you say, “It is too late now,” what can that possibly mean except that it is too late for you?

When you pray you are turning to the power of God, and surely you will admit that God is omnipotent, and therefore nothing can be too difficult or too late, or too soon for Him.  You will surely admit that Infinite Wisdom knows at least more than you do, to put the thing rather mildly.  Well, Infinite Wisdom takes action when we pray and so our own limitations do not matter—unless we think they do.

Children often find themselves completely overcome by a difficulty that a grown-up person easily solves.  What to the child seems an impossibility is quite easy to his father, and so even our greatest difficulties are simple to God.

Infinite Wisdom knows a beautiful and joyous solution to any dilemma.  Do not limit the power of God for good in your life.

“…Is my hand shortened at all, that it cannot redeem?  Or have I no power to deliver? …  (Isaiah 50:2)

I thanked the members of the group for the enormous gift of their acceptance of my reality on this journey, which without them would be the loneliest passage of my life.  Then I went home with a song of gratitude in my heart for this band of powerful, loving, and compassionate men whose presence and acceptance are as close to a community of wisdom and holiness as I can imagine.

Tonight, hours after the meeting was over, there was a knock on our front door and, to my amazement, I saw (and heard) a group of these very unlikely Gentle Giants and some of their women friends and relatives singing CHRISTMAS CAROLS!!!

I don’t think Andrea and I have ever been so moved by the Spirit of God on Christmas Eve!

Merry Christmas to you all!

With much love,

Keith Miller

At once the angel was joined by a huge angelic choir singing God’s praises: Glory to God in the heavenly heights, Peace to all men and women on earth who please him. (Luke 2:13, The Message)

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